By Zainab Ibrahim
In a deeply personal revelation, media personality Toke Makinwa has opened up about how becoming a mother has facilitated her healing from profound childhood trauma. In a heartfelt social media post, she shared, “My daughter brought me healing; she is daily healing parts of me I didn’t even know needed healing from my childhood trauma, from grief I thought I had dealt with a long time ago.”
A Journey Through Loss and Healing
Makinwa’s childhood was marked by tragedy when she lost both parents in a devastating fire. This traumatic event left deep emotional scars, leading her to believe she had come to terms with her grief over time. However, the arrival of her daughter, Yakira Eliana, in August 2025, unveiled unresolved wounds she hadn’t fully addressed.
Reflecting on her journey, Makinwa expressed that motherhood has not only brought joy but also a profound sense of healing, allowing her to confront and mend parts of herself she thought were long healed.
Public Reactions and Backlash
While many fans and colleagues celebrated Makinwa’s candidness and the joy of her new motherhood, her revelations were met with mixed reactions online. Some netizens praised her for her vulnerability and strength, acknowledging the courage it takes to share such personal experiences.
However, a significant portion of the backlash focused on the fact that she gave birth out of wedlock. Critics questioned her decision to have a child without being married, with some expressing disappointment or moral judgment. This reaction reflects the ongoing societal debates and cultural expectations around marriage and motherhood, especially for public figures. Despite the criticism, Makinwa remained unapologetic, emphasizing that her focus is on healing and raising her daughter with love.
A Testament to Resilience
Despite the mixed reactions, Makinwa’s openness has sparked important conversations about trauma, healing, and the challenges of motherhood. Her story serves as a reminder that healing is a continuous journey, and embracing one’s vulnerabilities can lead to profound personal growth.
As she continues her journey of motherhood, Toke Makinwa exemplifies resilience and the power of embracing one’s past to build a healthier future.
